When a woman of the XIX century was getting ready to go out had many things to coordinate for her outfit. The parasol, a pair of gloves and a hat, a shawl and the fan to disguise her blushing at the compliments from a man.
By then, the woman’s dressing ensemble had become a little less complicated than the previous centuries, nonetheless, feminine frills still continue to exist. One accessory she couldn’t forget to take before leaving the house was the “Ridicule”.
It was a small purse in the shape of a sack with a long silk decorative cord, worn hanging from the arm. Inside the Ridicule, the woman used to put a lipstick, a handkerchief and a mirror, which by that time was a popular item to carry in the purse.
If the woman of the XIX went dancing, one important item was kept in the Ridicule: a little book where she noted the names of the men who asked her to dance. Each man had a number on that list, she would accept their gallantry as she went through the list and took the center floor.
Last night going to the masquerade ball, you know is Carnevale at this time of the year, I wore a Ridicule with my costume. I found it a few years ago in an antique shop in Italy. I wanted it so bad, but the price was so high that I had to let out my bargaining skills in order to get it somewhat at my price.
Back to the masquerade ball of last night, I was wearing a beautiful Pompadour purse in my hand and the Ridicule hanging from my rhinestone-studded belts. Of course, a few people were curious to know what was that thing hanging from the belt. Telling the story of the Ridicule last night was an experience all by itself.
It was a bit like a lesson on the history of costumes, a bit of story-telling, quite a few laughs, but the important part was that my Ridicule became an icebreaker with people I met for the first time and a conversation piece. The modern woman (me) was carrying business cards and cellular phone in the Ridicule, no name of any man waiting to dance with me. How times have changed!
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Valentina
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Aug 07, 2019 @ 04:47:49
I will try to dress my best tomorrow for your party. Thanks for the mention in your post 😀🤗
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Aug 05, 2019 @ 11:50:36
Oh, the masquerade ball must have been wonderful! What a beautiful example you found. Thanks for sharing this bit of fashion history. Hugs.
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Aug 05, 2019 @ 15:53:22
The masquerade ball was so beautiful and fun. I was really wearing that ridicule. 😀😀
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Mar 02, 2011 @ 01:26:57
Grazie for sharing the story of the ridicule, a most beautiful accessory
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Mar 02, 2011 @ 05:51:58
Thank you Gioia,
You must be a connoiseur of all things Italians. By the way, the mask in my blog came from your shop.
Thanks for reading and sharing the joy of life. Ciao,
Valentina
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